Saturday, October 29, 2011

Fb…

One of my friends on facebook wrote this as her status today…

“My mama warned me there would be days like this.”

I thought about this statement for a long time, a really long time because you know me and I think and re-think everything too much. On a side note you thought I looked too much into things before I was preggers, you should see me now. I’m 15 times worse!

This may be half the problem I’ve faced my entire life. My mom didn’t warn me of days like this, ever! I never remember my mom saying she had a “bad day” or “just needed a hot bath and a diet coke” like I do way too often. Why do I let a bad second, minute, or maybe even hour ruin my entire day or sometimes even week? My mom NEVER did so how did the world make me into this person I wasn’t raised to be.

In my moms defense: I’m not saying this is a bad thing and she didn’t prepare me for life but really most of the problems my mom (and my dad) had I never knew about. I never heard we couldn’t afford something (even if they couldn’t), or we couldn’t do something (within reason). Yes I was sheltered and I really thought it was the right way to be raised, until I was reading my journal and less than 1 month before my parents split up I wrote that I wanted David’s and I’s relationship to be JUST like my parents. Holy cow. I had no idea any of their issues. My mama didn’t warn me of bad days, and I love and curse her all at the same time for doing that.

Ebay.

As you can tell by the subject I have a confession... it’s a current addiction… and it involves spending entirely too much money on ebay! Honestly, it’s my husbands fault. No really. I was complaining one day about how none of my clothes fit and after a day of shopping I wasn’t desperate enough to spend the $40 they wanted for a pair of maternity jeans. (I don’t even spend that much on pants I could wear for years let alone ones I’ll only wear for the next 4 months)

So David said “why don’t you look on craigslist?”

I replied, “already tried that, not enough options.”

Then he said those brilliant words “what about ebay?”

It’s really no wonder I married this man, he’s a genius! Why didn’t I think of that?

I’ve got a few really good deals so far, we’re talking pants for $2/$3 ($5 for shipping, but still not bad) granted I haven’t received any of the items yet so hopefully they are in as good as condition as their description said.

But then it happened… okay it happened twice… so far… and I can’t guarantee it won’t happen again. Occasionally I forget just how competitive I am and when it comes down to the last few minutes I sit at my computer going back and forth on bids paying little to no attention to how high the price is going because at this point I’m winning no matter the cost. She bids $5.25, I bid $6.00, She bids $6.25, I bid $8.00, she bids $8.25, I bid $10.00… and before you know it I’m up in the thirty dollar price range (before shipping, ugh!) but I’ll be damned if I’m going to loose.

Welcome to my life, it’s a great place, a place where I win period. Feel sorry for my poor husband… so sorry you bring him pumpkin cupcakes, please?

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Proof the below post happened…

I couldn’t get a good picture of the outside of our house… the sun is apparently in a bad spot right now….

However, this is our new bed spread I got a killer deal on! Fred Meyer basically paid me to take it out of their store. I love it, mostly because I have a shirt that looks very similar, David isn’t a fan of it yet.

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Notice, Jax has his own bed next to David’s side finally he is forced to sleep on the floor.

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Currently my favorite table for all the right reasons Smile

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Our living room. My favorite part- the TV room is separate and downstairs. Do you want to see the rest of my house? Come visit.

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I didn’t eat too much for lunch (ok I did) but my belly is growing as you can see. It’s ok if you think I just look extra fat and round, I do I’ve accepted it. However, I think this is the week people are going to question if I’m “happily married” or if I have a baby bump, by next week it will be clear. Only a week and 2 days until we find out what this little gummy bear is, and not to worry I took the entire day off so I can go shopping after the appointment while hubs goes back to work and it’s payday- what perfect timing?

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I don’t have a bestie… and not because I don’t have a favorite (because I do have one of those) I just hate the word! But if I did have one it would be this girl, and did I mention she got married? It’s weird when your ‘favorite’ gets married… now I know how she felt when I got hitched. I’m happy for the new couple, but hope we get together soon for a lunch date (just the 2 of us) and a corn maze/hot cocoa date (w/the hubs) soon… (hint,hint Sar)

Sunday, October 23, 2011

update minus the pictures…

Welcome back friends, it’s been awhile since I was on the blogging end of things and much has happened in the few months I’ve been gone… some things very exciting others not so much. So let’s review what’s changed and what hasn’t.

David and I bought a house. We are thrilled about this and finally are all moved in and it’s beginning to feel like home. I loved this house since the day we walked in to look at it because it felt like “home.” Weird I know but lots of houses we walked into just didn’t feel dare I say like us? or right? We found this house on the west side and the price was right… the rest is history. One day I’ll take a picture or 2 to prove this event really happened Smile

We are both still working at the same jobs and happy at that.

Okay let’s get down to the important stuff:

We are having a baby! Scary and true. David is excited and has been since day one, I’ve been scared since the morning we found out, but starting to get excited now. I’ve always felt this is the one thing in life I really can’t plan for, and I’m not good at taking chances and not planning every detail, especially one as huge as this! Looking back I’m so grateful we were able to get pregnant as quick and easy as we did, but I had convinced myself it wasn’t something that was going to come easy for us so you can imagine my shock the morning I peed on that stick. All the pregnancy signs were there but since I’ve never had a child or been around pregnant people much I just thought my headaches, getting up to pee a few times during the night (I never had to do this before, ever!), and weird sickly feelings were all due to my hormones trying to figure themselves out. It wasn’t until I went to wrap my towel around me one morning getting out of the shower that I literally couldn’t because my boobs were so tender (tmi… I know) that I stopped to think when my cycle was due. Then there were the mornings that I literally couldn’t drag myself out of bed I had zero energy and no food sounded appealing. I even remember the time, date, and place (I’ll spare you those details) David joking said “you’re probably pregnant” in which I replied “I hope so because I feel great!” I always thought I would be that horrific pregnant lady who laid in bed for 9 months because I was too miserable to do anything else, I thank my mom for babying me all those sickly years and never making me do anything I didn’t feel like.

Long story short I am just over 18 weeks along and doing well. Very well actually. I went through the tired, lazy, no energy, head ache stages and currently having some back pain and trouble getting comfortable while sleeping. But not once have I thrown up! Not once have I yelled and screamed at David asking him why he did this to me (not yet at least). I definitely don’t feel like myself or “normal” (whatever that is) but overall I feel good and so thankful that I do. Only 2 more weeks until we find out what this little stinker is and the anticipation is killing me. Did I mention we have an adorable pink room, that I’m in love with in our new house? Just our luck it will be a boy! Time will tell…

Now we have internet I will blog more and I will post pictures soon, my 18 week photo wasn’t that great but I swear my belly is growing more everyday and that 17 week photo doesn’t do us justice. I haven’t been telling my customers yet, but I got asked today by a regular if that was a baby bump I had… just 10 short minutes before that she asked if I had lost weight because my face seemed skinnier. At my 16 week appointment I’d lost 1 pound since my first weigh in. Last week my mom told me I better start telling people or they are going to assume I am just getting fat… ha so I guess it’s that time.

Monday, August 8, 2011

3 years and counting...

Today is David and I's 3rd anniversary. I must say this has been the funnest, hardest, most adventurous, stressful, rewarding and crazy fun 3 years of my life... I think he would agree. I love David, he is wonderful!

p.s. we temporarily no longer have Internet... hence my lack of posts. Hopefully we'll be up and running again shortly.

Adios!

Sunday, July 24, 2011

photographer in the making…

A few of the pictures B took while her perm processed. This girl loves the phone and the camera…

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She was pretty excited when there was only 50 minutes left on the timer…

Convo…

I permed… okay re-permed- this cute niece of mine’s hair today, again! She loves to take self portraits of herself and any random things in the room she feels like (maybe that will be my next post) I am DREADING these girls leaving I can’t even explain how much I love and miss them already. Knowing this will be one of the last times just the 2 of us will be alone for a while I opt to perm her hair after hours so we could turn the music up at the salon, dance, sing, and spend time without interruption. I loved every minute of it!

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She HAD to be home by 5:00 to go fishing…On our way home this convo took place:

Me: So B are you ready to go back to Pennsylvania?

B: No, I want to stay here and spend more time with my family.

Me: I know I want that too, but you will be so happy to see your mom again.

B: Yeah, I miss my mom but I just want all my family to live together in Idaho again.

Me: {sigh} while driving I put on my glasses and shed a few tears thinking to myself me too B, me too.

A few minutes pass…

B: Aunt TIffy?

Me: yes Brooklyn?

B: You told me it was only 4:45 and we would be home by 5:00 to go fishing, but that clock says it’s 6:13…

oops, I forget they are getting smarter and I can’t fool them any longer.